“Sinful”

Most of us only need to consider what we, and perhaps our family, think of our actions. However, Gina Crotts came from a very strict, close community outside of Saratoga Springs, Utah, one that believed in harsh punishments for those who went against their ways. “I was living in the thickness of a community, that I believed would shun me for having premarital sex,” she said.

In fact, during college, Crotts had remained in an abusive relationship in fear of what the community might think, should she break up with him. “I rationalized my actions by telling myself we were getting married and somehow that felt less “sinful.” If the end result was marriage, I would still be accepted as a faithful member of my community and religion.” Thankfully, as it would turn out, the community would surprise young Crotts! In a way, at least…