Going Dutch or the Art of “Warikan”

The question of who pays on a date has a charmingly practical answer in Japan: “warikan,” or splitting the bill. This practice reflects a broader cultural preference for fairness and equality, even in romantic settings. Traditionally, men were expected to foot the bill, but modern dating etiquette embraces “warikan,” especially among younger couples who value equality in their relationships.

Some Japanese couples take “warikan” to the next level by meticulously calculating each person’s share, right down to the last yen! This systematic approach ensures that no one feels the weight of financial imbalance, keeping the focus on enjoying the date itself.