Elisabeth Moss and Fred Armisen

Well, there might not be many things actors Elisabeth Moss and Fred Armisen agree on, but they both agree that Armisen wasn’t really a very good husband. Moss and Armisen first met when the actress hosted an episode of Saturday Night Live while he worked on the show. Not long after, in 2009, the two engaged and married. Sadly, just two years later, they parted ways forever.

Moss did not put things bluntly when talking about her marriage to the LA Times: “Looking back, I feel like I was really young, and at the time I didn’t think that I was that young,” the 31-year-old said. “It was extremely traumatic and awful and horrible. At the same time, it turned out for the best.” Not too long after, Armisen agreed, telling Vulture, “I think I was a terrible husband, I think I’m a terrible boyfriend.”